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Detoxing the Chaos | Leading with Legacy

Event Highlights

01.

The DETOXperience
Our signature 4-day retreat at sea. Release toxicity, renew your purpose, and rise into the life you were meant to lead.

02.

Grace & Grit
A half-day mini detox where leaders and entrepreneurs step away from the noise, reconnect with themselves, and recharge with resilience.

03.

Boundary Board Session
A half-day interactive workshop to help you draw the line, protect your peace, and lead with clarity.

Choose your path to detox, growth, and legacy

About the Movement

Born From a Story.
Built Into a Movement.

It started with the book It’s Me, Not You: How I Survived Toxic Work Environments.


What began as one woman’s journey to escape workplace toxicity has grown into a global movement — helping professionals and leaders detox toxic environments, set healthy boundaries, and create lasting impact.

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At It’s Me Not You, we believe in:

  • Healing what toxicity has broken 

  • Growing through reflection & renewal 

  • Building boundaries that protect peace 

  • Creating legacies that outlive the moment 

Meet the Movement
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Upcoming Experiences

What's Next on Your Detox Journey
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  • Grace & Grit (MEN Only)
    Grace & Grit (MEN Only)
    45 days to the event
    Sat, Jan 17
    Location is TBD
    Jan 17, 2026, 8:30 AM – 2:00 PM
    Location is TBD
    Grace & Grit isn’t just an event—it’s a pause button for your life and leadership. It’s your chance to release what weighs you down, restore what fuels you, and return with strategies that make you stronger, more grounded, and better prepared to lead with both power and peace.
  • The Boundary Set
    The Boundary Set
    87 days to the event
    Sat, Feb 28
    Location is TBD
    Feb 28, 2026, 9:00 AM – 1:00 PM
    Location is TBD
    Ready to protect your peace and communicate with confidence?
  • The Elevated Reading & Writing Power Hour
    The Elevated Reading & Writing Power Hour
    141 days to the event
    Thu, Apr 23
    Karma Lounge
    Apr 23, 2026, 6:00 PM – 8:30 PM CDT
    Karma Lounge, 3014 Colonial Lakes Dr, Missouri City, TX 77459, USA
    Discover local authors, explore book clubs, and hear from Houston area bookstores while enjoying live music.
  • Grace & Grit (Nonprofit Leaders)
    Grace & Grit (Nonprofit Leaders)
    164 days to the event
    Sat, May 16
    Location is TBD
    May 16, 2026, 9:30 AM – 2:00 PM
    Location is TBD
    Grace & Grit isn’t just an event—it’s a pause button for your life and leadership. It’s your chance to release what weighs you down, restore what fuels you, and return with strategies that make you stronger, more grounded, and better prepared to lead with both power and peace.
  • Grace & Grit (Business Leaders & Professionals)
    Grace & Grit (Business Leaders & Professionals)
    290 days to the event
    Sat, Sep 19
    Location is TBD
    Sep 19, 2026, 8:30 AM – 2:00 PM
    Location is TBD
    Grace & Grit isn’t just an event—it’s a pause button for your life and leadership. It’s your chance to release what weighs you down, restore what fuels you, and return with strategies that make you stronger, more grounded, and better prepared to lead with both power and peace.
  • The It's Me Not You: DETOXperience
    The It's Me Not You: DETOXperience
    365 days to the event
    Thu, Dec 03
    Galveston
    Dec 03, 2026, 12:00 PM – Dec 07, 2026, 8:00 AM
    Galveston, 2502 Harborside Dr, Galveston, TX 77550, USA
    Gain the power of self-reflection, professional growth, and radical self-care into one unforgettable experience at sea.

Reflections

I didn’t just leave with clarity — I left with peace.

Grace & Grit reminded me that my well-being is my leadership foundation.

The Boundary Set gave me the courage to say ‘no’ without guilt.

What We Offer

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Leadership Events

We specialize in crafting impactful leadership trainings.

02

Experiences

Our experiences encourage personal and professional growth.

03

Clinics

We host writing and reading clinics to foster a community of creativity.

04

Community Building

We connect participants through meaningful interactions.

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